What to do if the TSA takes your child

tsa checkpointNicole White describes herself as a 28-year-old freelancing writer, “tattooed liberal” and mom to a 16-month-old son, Jackson. She lives in Annapolis, Md., with her husband, Paul, a Navy pilot.

While White and her son were passing through the security checkpoint in Atlanta yesterday, she claims a TSA agent walked away with her toddler.

My eyes welled up with tears, I stood up from my chair and I asked the female TSA agent, “Where is he going? Where is he taking my child? Why is he leaving?”

Jackson, while being whisked away looked at the male TSA agent awkwardly and repeated “no no no no.”

I started crying.

Sounds pretty harsh, doesn’t it? After all, TSA promises it won’t separate parents from their children.

We specially train our Security Officers and they understand your concern for your children. They will approach your children gently and treat them with respect. If your child becomes uncomfortable or upset, security officers will consult you about the best way to relieve your child’s concern.

So what went wrong here?

Nothing, according to the TSA. Late Friday, the agency released the complete video footage of her screening, which shows she and her son were never separated and calls into question other parts of her account. It also sent me the following statement:

On Oct. 15 at approximately 11 a.m. at Atlanta Hartsfield International Airport, a female passenger and her small child processed through the security checkpoint. Following her trip, the passenger blogged an online narration describing her airport security experience and alleged that TSA separated her child from her during screening.

TSA’s policy is that officers will not ask parents to do anything that would distance them from their children during the screening process. Our goal is to provide the highest level of security while ensuring that all passengers are treated with courtesy and respect.

After reviewing the footage it is evident that all proper screening procedures were followed and at no time did any TSA officer remove her child from her custody, as was described in the blog post.

I have also reached out to White to get some details from her. She hasn’t responded. Curiously, she’s removed all the comments from her blog post as well.

It appears that White and her son were pulled over for secondary screening. The process took a little while longer than they expected. From her post:

At this point in time, my heart began to race, thinking we would miss our flight and I would be stuck in the Atlanta airport with Jackson for who knows how long until there was another flight to Baltimore.

The female TSA agent stood in front of me while I sat with Jackson and she continued to watch luggage come through the conveyor belt.

“Ma’am, can someone please just search me so we can be on our way? We are going to miss our flight,” I said.

The female agent then called an older gentleman, also a TSA agent over. The male TSA agent stood in front of me and said “I’m going to have to pat down your son.”

The reaction from the Twittersphere, where I first reported this issue, has been swift and merciless. Although one follower called White “high-strung” most of the criticism was leveled against the agency:

Some people need to be fired!

Not COOL!!

WHAT A FRIGGIN TRAVESTY!

Disturbing story.

At least we are safe from dangerous terrorist infants.

This reminds me of the Monica Emmerson incident in 2007, where an account by a woman who had a run-in with a TSA agent over her child’s sippy cup turned out to be incomplete. There’s always another side to the story.

In the meantime, what if you’re at the airport with a child (or in my case, three of ‘em) and a TSA agent nabs one?

If I’m reading White’s account correctly, this probably could have been prevented by giving herself some extra time at the airport. Kids always slow things down. There are pit stops for diaper changes and emergency detours to the gift shop for snacks.

Also, securing your metal objects is helpful. From White’s account:

The instant I walked through the metal detector with Jackson in my arms, we beeped. I knew exactly why.

I told the TSA agent, who asked me to back up and walk through again, “It’s my son’s pacifier clip, can I put it on the conveyor belt?”

She knew exactly?

If White suspected the clip might be an issue, she might have considered putting it in her luggage.

OK, so in the unlikely event that an officer takes your child, what now?

My advice: take a deep breath and politely but firmly insist that the child be returned to you. (I think the child will probably be making similar demands at this point.)

Here’s how it went with White:

Panic set in. My hands began to shake. My body was sweating. My breath was short and my heart was racing.

They had taken my child and not told me.

Jackson was out of my eye sight.

I could not see my son.

Now sobbing, I repeated my questions to the female TSA agent.

She told me “Ma’am, we’re trying to be nice to you. We don’t know which one of you went off in the metal detector. Stay here so I can search you.”

“But my son… where is my son?” I asked over and over again.

The female TSA agent called a second female TSA agent over as she began to search me. Apparently the second female TSA agent could hear me protesting and asking for my son.

“Ma’am you need to calm down or I’m going to have to involve the authorities,” she told me.

Now I was pissed.

If the woman in the TSA video is White and I have no reason to believe it isn’t) then the only reason to be “pissed” is that the TSA officer gave her a very thorough screening. But it never separated her from her child.

That should come as a relief to parents everywhere. I still believe this incident could have been handled better. But after watching the video, I think the TSA screened White by the book.

(Photo: Matt McGee/Flickr Creative Commons)

Note: This story has been updated several times since I first posted it. As a result, some of the initial comments don’t reflect the version of the post you are now reading.

  • Rick Spencer

    Wow. I read her story, your story and the comments AND watched the tape. Funny, she displays an integrity badge on her site. Watch the tape. This is clearly all a fabrication. Who knows her motivation, but the child is clearly visible in her presence every minute.
    Sheesh! Another example of the internet in action.

  • Melissa

    I read White’s response to the TSA video with interest. And finished it with the firm belief that she’s a liar. It’s so obvious that she wanted to get drama and attention out of this and I’m sure it never occurred to her that they’d refute her story, especially with video footage! Her assertions that they edited the video are absurd, but I guess at this point it’s her only “out” for having cried “wolf” falsely. If she had accused an individual of taking her child, she’d be open to a lawsuit; it’s too bad that the TSA has no such recourse. She needs to learn a lesson.

  • http://aol barbie45

    rebecca; who the heck knows what was on her mind if she has one; and who gives a darn,

  • Mo

    As a military pilot myself, I can only think “Poor Navy pilot husband”.

  • http://aol barbie45

    gee Mo; My fiance and I have a condo in Virginia Beach right on the ocean; We contantly here the planes either practicing or going off; he was a SEABEE during Nam and his son spent a year in Iraq; I have beentold how demanding and daangerous this job is; and here he is stuck with this lulu; my heart goes out to him.

  • http://aol barbie45

    By the way MO; Thank you for serving our country.

  • Bryan

    No one ever thinks that there are parts that may not have been taped; or maybe the part that took place was erased or edited out? Really people, it’s the government…come on…let’s think a little bit before we start calling someone a liar…

  • http://www.worldtraveler.biz Preston Smith

    Hmm. Her case is bizarre.

    I watched the tape repeatedly–it is edited, but does not appear to be as heavily edited as many claim. It would seem that either she fabricated details or that her perceptions were altered simply because she was obviously quite upset.

    However, what I found equally surprising were the plastic “penalty box,” the lack of privacy and extremely thorough patdown. I’ve been through full patdowns and they did not take that long. Once, in an incident I am not proud of, I made a quite sarcastic comment at exactly the wrong time and got a strip search to my underwear. This was years ago, so admittedly I do not remember exactly how long it took, but I doubt the actual strip search took as long as her patdown, although the entire procedure from start to end took longer.

    However, considering that this was an over-the-clothes patdown, it just seems to go on and on and on, and it seems to be in full view of everyone who passes by despite promises by the TSA to guarantee privacy. Blurring the box on video is commendable, but it does seem to have been quite drawn out and “pokey,” if that is an apt description.

    Again, considering that her “penalty time” began in the plastic box–also in full view of other passengers–and that it continued in full view for such a long period, it is not hard to imagine that she found the whole experience humiliating. This is no excuse to fabricate details, if that is what she did here, but the entire episode is troubling to say the least.

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  • Eileen Joan

    I also agree the “pat down” went on way too long and waiting in the box was also long, but I feel Ms White was fabricating the separation from her son story. Going through Security is always a hassle and every time I do it, I get angry all over at the terrorists that has forced us to do this. I’m old enough to remember the “good ole days” when you could go to the Gate with your loved ones and watch them board and also meet them as they got off.

  • http://nmdfreelance.com Nancy

    Where was her son? Was she even traveling with him?

  • http://nmdfreelance.com Nancy

    Oh, wow, I just visited her blog and the tagline on it says, “pull up a seat and pour yourself a glass of crazy.” That pretty much says it all, doesn’t it?

    She’s a self-proclaimed freelancer and now she’s getting her 15 minutes of fame. She’ll probably get a book deal out of it.

  • Sarah

    Yes, she waited a long time with a small child in the holding area, which is enclosed because…well…if you detain someone for a search, if they’re dirty, then they RUN. It’s transparent so you can SEE what the person is doing while in holding.The airport was obviously busy and she came out of that holding area very angry. Watch her body language: she was livid from the very start and clearly gives the TSA agent and earful.
    The bottom line is that if she had checked her temper, left ehrself more time and then not LIED about her experience, then things would have been fine. I do think she lied, too, because no where in that footagte is the child out of her care or showing any signs of distress,