Whose responsibility are those unaccompanied minors?

Christina Welsch is young, dresses conservatively, and is usually alone when she flies.

Maybe that’s the problem: She just looks like a babysitter.

On several occasions, she says, flight attendants have asked her to keep an eye on the unaccompanied minors flying that day.

“I like children,” says the Ph.D student, “so I’m usually willing to oblige. But it surprises me that this is an issue at all. Surely airlines themselves should have employees more focused on this task.”

They should. Not that flight attendants are babysitters (ask them to oblige with one of your kids, and you’ll probably get an entirely different reaction). And yet their airlines collect hundreds of dollars per child to ensure junior gets to summer camp safely or that his stepmom can pick him up from the airport in Pittsburgh.

They don’t always do it well, mind you. Just last week we heard about how United Airlines lost a 10-year-old flying from San Francisco to Grand Rapids, Mich. (I wonder if she’ll get her fee refunded?)

Welsch is among a small but growing number of passengers who are troubled by junk fees for which people essentially get nothing. That should bother anyone who travels, come to think of it.

For example, on a recent flight from New Delhi to London, a British Airlines employee at the counter asked Welsch if she would be willing to sit next to and “look after” a young child.

“She arrived — never having flown before — without anything at all to do and immediately panicked upon watching the safety demonstration,” she remembers. “I asked for assistance from the flight attendants, but I was ignored.”

Adding to the confusion was the fact that the girl only spoke Hindi.

“I did not speak sufficient Hindi to have a conversation with the child,” she recalls. “But I was able to entertain her — for the next nine hours — with some paper and colored pens in my bag.”

I asked British Airways about Welsch’s stint as an unpaid babysitter. A spokeswoman denied the airline asked passengers to look after unaccompanied minors.

“Our highly trained cabin crew take the responsibility of caring for these children, whose safety and security has been entrusted to us, extremely seriously,” the spokeswoman said, adding, “There is a specific seating department which has a range of guidelines to ensure that we place in an appropriate seat and on some services, this will be in a specially created unaccompanied minors zone within a short distance of the cabin crew in the galley.”

That sounds nice, but experience tells me that airlines often treat unaccompanied minors like minor inconveniences at best and profit opportunities, at worst.

Enlisting the help of passengers to “look after” these young customers — if it’s true — would be the final insult. Not only does an airline not want to be bothered with flying unsupervised kids, but it wants to take our money and ask us to watch after them.

Come on.

Some airlines already place significant restrictions on unaccompanied minors, limiting their age, the type of flight and their seating. Shouldn’t they also make it crystal clear to the rest of the passengers that the $100 fee Mom and Dad paid covers the cost of the flight attendants — not other travelers — doing the babysitting?

  • flutiefan

    no airline asked this question. sheeeesh.

  • flutiefan

    of course the airline is responsible for the UMs, it’s absurd to say anything else. however, ultimately the PARENTS of the UM need to be involved and prepared. it’s sad how rarely they are.

  • RetiredNavyphotog

    Of course, Lufthansa did a good job – they always do.

  • RetiredNavyphotog

    Why should anyone be surprised that United Airlines dropped the ball on this unaccompanied minor? Cranky flight attendants, dirty planes, poor customer service…I could go on.

  • Sadie_Cee

    I would hazard a guess that the airline admin. has no idea that this responsibility is being offloaded on passengers.

  • MarkieA

    Maybe the same kind of folks who read about ridiculous, frivolous lawsuits every day. Who read about people accused of sexual harassment for looking at someone the wrong way. I wouldn’t blame anyone for not looking to take responsibility for someone else;’s child for even two minutes.

  • MarkieA

    But the parents are paying the airline. Whether or not the airline passes that on to the FA or to any of the others involved is really of no concern to the parents.

  • IrishStubborn

    I remember flying as a UM back in the 70′s (ah, the good old days!). My parents paid extra and they got what they paid for. FAs have more passengers to deal with than ever before (when was the last time you were on a flight with empty seats??!!), and the airlines don’t care if they are overworked or overwhelmed. That being said, however, if the airlines are going to charge for the service, they need to PROVIDE THE SERVICE!! They should have someone on staff who’s job it is to fly with the UM, and not put it on the FAs or the other passengers. Unless, of course, they refund my ticket price if they ask me to “keep an eye” on someone!!

  • travelagentman

    You have truly hit the nail on the head! It is not your responsibility. It is the airline’s and they have no hard fact and rules to guide you. I will not take this responsibility, not that I’m mean, but, I want to read, sleep, enjoy the little comforts that are left on our meagerly run airlines, not talk to the “kid”.

  • ExplorationTravMag

    I only read through about half the comments here so if I’m repeating something said by another poster, my apologies.

    If the airlines are going to “request” passengers “keep an eye on” a UM, they need to come up with some perks for that. Someone mentioned a bottle of bubbly – I think that would buy my grace… Also, some miles would be nice, for completely disrupting what might have been an otherwise uneventful flight.

    My belief is, the airline has already been paid by the parents to “keep an eye on” a UM. It’s their responsibility, not mine.

  • Angelo

    The responsibility is fully with the Airline who accepted the UM.

  • jennj99738

    A backpack is not a child. The airline should not be asking passengers to do its job for it. Taking responsibility for a child means accepting liability as well. No one but the airline, the one charging the fee, should be asked to accept that responsibility.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001938106072 Ken Rahr

    Who are the 14 idiots that actually think its another passengers responsibility to take care of unaccompanied minors?

  • http://twitter.com/starkiller99 StarKiller

    Look after a kid? Sure $25/hour, cash upfront.

  • http://elliott.org Christopher Elliott

    Flight attendants. Although, to be clear, I’m not calling them idiots.

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  • http://twitter.com/DaveLovesDee David Hook

    http://www.smh.com.au/travel/travel-incidents/nurse-humiliated-by-qantas-policy-20120813-243t4.html

    The article also says the British Airways stopped this practice in 2010 as it broke UK sex discrimination laws. Do other countries have a similar law?

  • Timon_8

    In fact, many of us would be happier and more comfortable if there were no children allowed on some flights at all. Child-free flights is an idea whose time has come!