Nothing says “we don’t care” like a tray of unwanted food left in front of you for a few hours

Did Chris Hill’s mother and aunt have a bad flight on Virgin Atlantic? Without a doubt. The flight attendants were rude and the service was terrible, by their account.

Did Virgin Atlantic respond appropriately to their grievance? No, without a doubt. In fact, it didn’t respond at all.

I’ve been on countless Virgin Atlantic flights and have never seen anything like this. But I guess there’s a first time for everything.

Hill explains:

On my mum and aunt’s return home flight from Miami to London, they were not given pillows and blankets – while several passengers around them had two sets of pillows and blankets, the flight attendants failed to attempt to ask any of them if they would give up their second set, and instead one of them told them in a frosty manner that there was nothing they could do.

OK, not good. But it happens. That’s not all, though …

Also, they failed to provide them with a choice of meal, having run out of options.

Again, that’s not uncommon, and the flight attendants aren’t necessarily responsible.

The flight attendant slammed down the food on my mum’s tray and told her ‘it’s that or nothing.’

Now they’ve crossed the line.

My mom politely responded that she didn’t want the meal that had been dumped in front of her, yet the flight attendant left it there on her tray anyway.

My mum fell asleep while everyone else was eating, and woke several hours later to find the food still on the tray in front of her, long after everyone elses’ trays had been cleared. She actually had to call a flight attendant to come and remove it.

Nothing says “we don’t care” like a tray of unwanted food left in front of you for a few hours.

While the nature of these complaints may be considered trivial in comparison to passenger complaints regarding lost baggage or financial suffering, it’s my firm belief that if a company cannot satisfactorily address the small things, then how on earth can they be expected to handle the bigger problems?

And no matter, what the reason for the complaint, if a customer takes the time to write to them, they should at least receive a personal response, be it an apology, a promise to do better or whatever may be the appropriate recourse.

I agree.

I suggested Hill contact Virgin Atlantic in writing, offering a few tips on how to craft an effective complaint letter. That was back in May. He sent an email and a follow-up email to Virgin, both of which apparently were ignored.

Now, it’s possible that Virgin was just busy. Or it may have read his first problem and dismissed it, or it may have gotten to the second issue and then decided this wasn’t even worth a form response.

It doesn’t matter: Virgin should have at least sent back a canned apology. Both of these passengers, after all, were frequent fliers.

I contacted Virgin on Hill’s behalf. Yesterday, it responded:

The effect of the Icelandic volcano had a big impact on us and our priority, at that time, was the repatriation of passengers. Subsequently, this influenced our normal day-to-day workload. I am not excusing the delay; simply offering an apology and explanation for the postponed response.

I was concerned to hear about the way you feel you were treated by our cabin crew on your journey to London. I can imagine how upsetting this was for you, and I’m truly sorry. When our crew are busy serving drinks and food at the start of the flight, they’ve obviously got a lot on their plate, but this is no excuse for them being rude or inattentive – and they certainly should of taken the time to find a pillow for both of you! Our crew are trained to be helpful, warm and professional at all times – clearly this wasn’t the case in your situation.

In addition, I’m sorry to hear of the lack of meal choice. We keep a close eye on what meals are proving most popular so we can try and make sure we’ve always got enough of them. But sometimes it’s impossible to guess how many people are going to pick a particular meal and we do run out. Luckily this is very rare, but I’m sorry you missed out on a choice this time. I’ve let our catering team know about this so that we can adjust our calculations.

As a further apology, I’ve taken the liberty of crediting each of your flying club accounts with 8,000 miles. I hope this gesture goes some way to make up for the disappointment.

In closing, I would like to thank you for choosing to fly with Virgin Atlantic. I hope we’ll see you back on board again soon and I’m confident that we’ll be able to live up to your expectations.

That’s the response they should have gotten the first time they wrote to Virgin Atlantic.

(Photo: Simon sees/Flickr Creative Commons)

  • Paulette B

    Sorry, Barry and others who think people who won’t give up their seats for families are mean and unreasonable. Because I love to drive and prefer long road trips, I fly only a few times a year to visit my daughter in D.C., so I’m not one of Barry’s “entitled” frequent fliers. But if I’ve booked a window seat, printed out my boarding pass, and arrived at the airport on time, I’m not about to give up that seat to accommodate people who want to sit together. Yes, some seating issues arise because of equipment changes, but many of these families either didn’t bother to preselect seats or bought their tickets/waited until it was too late to do so (didn’t print out their Southwest boarding passes before coming to the airport), counting on being able to guilt others into giving up their aisle/window seats. When I fly Southwest, I pay the extra $10 each way to ensure an “A” boarding pass and a window seat — and I still had a woman ask me to switch to a middle seat on a full flight so that her young daughter could look out the window. Of course, this same woman wasn’t willing to trade me HER seat on the aisle.

  • http://9000miles.wordpress.com scott

    They really wrote “should of taken?” Wow.

  • Chris

    I wanted to add some additional commentary about my mum and aunts’ experience. First, in no way would either of them act ‘entitled’. They are both extremely kind and considerate people. This story is not about a flight that ran out of meal options or pillows and blankets – as some of you correctly commented, it’s about a flight attendant’s unprofessional and vindictive way of handling the situation.

    There would normally be a pillow and blanket placed on each seat prior to boarding. When my mum and aunt boarded and got to their seats, there were no pillows and blankets there. Sure, they could have then taken them from other yet to be occupied seats, but realizing that would in turn inconvenience other passengers they asked the flight attendant for help instead. My mum had already noted some passengers ahead of them had more than one pillow and blanket and passed on this observation to the FA. Now the FA could have offered to go look to see if she could find some extra ones, or she could have ‘asked’ the other passengers if they would give up one of their extras, explaining that other passengers were without. No-one ever demanded that she forcefully remove them from another passenger. But apparently, just asking for the FA’s help was crossing the line – perhaps the FA was already having a bad day, and needed to take it out on someone – if not my mum and aunt, then it would have been the next person that asked for something. So instead of trying to help, the FA just said she couldn’t.

    Then the situation with the meal. Again, flights run out of meal options all the time. They cannot carry two of every meal and they do their best to anticipate the demand and plan accordingly. That’s not the issue. When my mum declined the only meal that was left available, that should have been the end of it. The FA could have said she would try to find something else, or at least offer to let her know if one of the other meals turned up. Or even just apologized and left it at that. End of story. But no, this FA continued on her warpath, dumping the meal that my mum didn’t want on her tray. As my mum described it, “I would imagine that prisoners get served their food with more dignity”. And then to leave it there, so that my mum woke up several hours later to find it still in front of her, while everyone else had had their leftovers removed and were comfortably relaxing – uncalled for.

    Two things that bother me about this. (1) The arrogant and hostile attitude of this FA – when so many people are out of work, laid off, and willing and able to do a better job, and (2) The failure of the airline to respond with at least a basic apology after waiting two months and two emails – then once Chris Elliott contacted them on our behalf, they responded in less than 2 hours.

    For years, I have been Virgin Atlantic’s biggest advocate. I used to fly with them often, and always had terrific service, great food and a good choice of entertainment options. I would recommend them to anyone that would be flying transatlantic. They were hip, cool, the airline that all the others wanted to be like. It’s a shame that one individual’s crappy attitude can change all that.

  • Jack

    @Shari

    With all due respect, if someone is planning a family trip, they should plan far enough in advance to insure their seats are together. If a family waits until the last minute to purchase seats, hoping to get a deal, and with the knowledge that they will not have seats together, why should someone else move for them? There are numerous situations where a family simply feels entitled and if you don’t accommodate them by switching seats, you are being unreasonable. Sorry, but if you sit in my seat before I get to it, I will not be moving for you.

    I think most people would be willing to give up a seat for an equivalent seat. The person unwilling to trade an aisle or window for a middle seat is not being selfish. You seem to presume that a family group is more important than other types of passengers. Again, book far enough in advance and reserve seats that are together. If there is an equipment change, work with the airline to resolve the issue – your rights as a family don’t trump the rights of other passengers. Otherwise, don’t get upset because someone won’t trade a front aisle for a back middle.

  • Kevin

    I’m not a frequent flier. I maybe travel twice or three times a year. This year, I was on a small plane with two seats on each side. I had boarded and taken my window seat. A woman gets on, directs her son to the aisle seat next to me and says to me, “Oh, no. This isn’t going to work. Get your ass out of that seat now!”

    I pretended not to speak English (I’m fluent in German) and that just frustrated her. She kept screaming at me and even reached to grab my collar. A flight attendant saw this go down and came over asking what the problem was. At this point the little boy is crying and the mother is cursing at me in English, telling me I better move or she was going to kill me. I kept pretending not to understand her and said some random phrases in German. (I admit a few weren’t nice, but I knew she didn’t understand)

    When the flight attendant couldn’t get this woman to sit in her assigned seat which was three rows back, another flight attendant came from the front and told her she had to sit down or deplane. She screamed in his face. Then, she got escorted off the plane!

    I would have gladly switched with her but after the way she acted, I didn’t think I needed to. So, I just worked on calmly playing the confused German!

  • Carver

    @Paulette B.

    “…but many of these families either didn’t bother to preselect seats or bought their tickets/waited until it was too late to do so (didn’t print out their Southwest boarding passes before coming to the airport), counting on being able to guilt others into giving up their aisle/window seats.”
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    How do you know that? How do you know when these families bought tickets. Seems like a huge assumption.

    @Jack

    “With all due respect, if someone is planning a family trip, they should plan far enough in advance to insure their seats are together. ”
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    Exactly how far in advance is that? Its sounds great, but in reality, how do you know what’s reasonable? Besides, depending on the trip, advance preparation may or may not be possible.

    @Jack

    There are numerous situations where a family simply feels entitled and if you don’t accommodate them by switching seats, you are being unreasonable.
    ===================================
    That’s true. That’s the real issue. Its not about how far in advance the family books, or if they pre-selected seats, or if they printed out boarding passes. All of that is just red herrings. There are only two relevant issues. Did they ask nicely and how do they take rejection. Nothing else is really important.

  • Shruti

    OK, since everyone is getting worked up here, here is a fun “switching seats” story. My husband and I were booked sitting one row apart from each other and wanted to sit together (It was FF mile tickets, so obviously low priority). If not, no big deal, but obviously nice to be with your companion. I was in the row in front and asked the lady in the row behind if she would switch seats with me–same seat, one row up. She didn’t look too pleased, as she had got settled with her magazine and drink in the pocket, etc.

    Then a gentleman gets on board and his two kids have the seats next to her (my old seat) and asks if she is willing to switch…up to First Class! No hesitation there–she turned around and gave me a high five before scooting on up to her new lofty seat. UPGRADE!