US Airways charges family extra to sit together

When Molly Todd tried to secure seat assignments for a recent US Airways flight from Philadelphia to Cancun, Mexico, she made a disappointing discovery.

In order to sit next to her children, ages 7 and 10, she’d have to pay extra for her economy class seat.

“I was told I could have seats together if I paid for the choice seats, which cost $30 extra each,” says Todd, who co-owns a restaurant in Philadelphia. “I paid $4,000 for our tickets – and now this?”

Todd is just the latest in a series of worried parents who find themselves on the wrong side of the airline industry’s newest revenue-generating gimmick. This summer, American Airlines began charging for virtually every seat reservation on the plane, even if you’re in economy class.

Discount airlines such as Allegiant Air and Spirit Airlines already charge for seat assignments, but no airline is more “iffy” than Southwest Airlines, which doesn’t even offer assigned seats.

The issue here isn’t whether the airlines should be charging for economy class seat reservations. The Transportation Department has already given them the green light to do it, and passengers, by buying the cheap airline tickets, have implicitly approved of it – even if they didn’t intend to.

No, the issue is, what’s a parent to do?

Well, I am a parent, and I’ve fielded numerous nervous calls from other parents during the last few months about their economy class seating arrangements.

“Do we have to pay?” they all ask.

Absolutely not.

Here’s what’s going on from the airline’s perspective: It wants to make as much extra money off you as possible. But its reservation systems are not optimized to keep traveling families together; they’re programmed mostly to squeeze more greenbacks out of their passengers.

Still, says US Airways, that doesn’t mean it wants to split families up.

“We do make every effort to seat families together while also being mindful as not to inconvenience customers with previously reserved seats,” US Airways spokeswoman Valerie Wunder told me.

Here are the steps to ensuring your family can sit together in economy class.

• Get at the airport early. The sooner you’re at the gate, the sooner you can ask an airline agent to address your seating problem. At this stage of your trip, the employees are not as concerned with generating revenues as ensuring everyone has a good flight. If they see you pulling up to the counter with young children, they will do their darnedest to help.

• In the unlikely event you aren’t seated together, appeal to a flight attendant once you’ve boarded. Crewmembers know that families that aren’t seated together have the unique ability to make the entire cabin miserable, and will do their best to reseat you. Note that this might be a tougher pitch with teen-age children or if all family members are adults – but it’s still worth a try.

• If the flight attendants can’t or won’t help you, ask the person seated next to you if they’ll switch. As long as the “fasten seat belt” sign isn’t illuminated and you’re in the same class of service, you should be able to switch. If you have young children, the pitch is easy. I mean, who really wants to be seated next to an unaccompanied toddler for 11 hours?

It turns out Todd didn’t have to use any of these tips. When she arrived at the airport, a US Airways agent asked if he could seat a child next to an adult, in pairs.

“Later, he managed to put three of us together in one of the select rows that they had been trying to sell us,” she says. “We were very grateful for his help.”

  • Anonymous

    After the mother sat next to me, I would’ve proceeded to take my shoes and socks off. To many of those traditionally-dressed religious folks, that is a huge insult.

  • http://twitter.com/urmann David Urmann

    I find that in most cases the airlines make an effort to seat people together but of course sometimes this is difficult. It would be nice if agents could waive some of these fees in some cases when it obviously makes a lot of difference to someone

  • Anonymous

    I think airlines have a moral responsibility (and it should be a legal one) to either keep children with their carers or to assume legal care for them, like unaccompanied minors.

    I also don’t think they should charge ANYONE for a seat reservation. (Making some seats like exit rows premium is different – I think that’s OK, though annoying). Charging means they are obliged to give you the seat you paid for if at all possible or face processing refunds. Allowing you to select seats for free means they are not bound by that and it’s much less of a big deal if they have to move people around to optimism the flying experience for everyone.

  • Anonymous

    @Kevin He was moved TO an aisle seat.

  • Anonymous

    Young children have more right to sit with their parents than anyone else on the plane has a “right” to sit in the seats they booked, regardless if who booked when or how much anyone paid for their tickets or seat reservations. You are a fool if you think otherwise. Airlines don’t guarantee your seat reservations for precisely these reasons.

  • Anonymous

    There have been a few documented cases of children being sexually abused by strangers next to them in planes. I read a long article a year or so ago about multiple instances of this happening to unaccompanied minors (older children than LeeAnn’s), even when the parents had paid extra for the airline’s unaccompanied minor program.

  • Anonymous

    I agree with you for older children and teens. However, I think airlines should always seat young children with at least one carer, even if they have to move people to do it.

  • Anonymous

    And you parents feel no responsibility to book in advance and ensure seats – everyone else should be inconvenienced.  My friend and I ALWAYS ensure there is seating available  BEFORE we book for travel with her 3-year-old.  So why shouldn’t THIS parent?

  • Anonymous

    And a lot of kids are sexually abused by FAMILY – that’s really a ridiculous comment – if you think everyone else on the plane is a criminal – don’t fly at all!

  • Anonymous

    How about because…her grandfather died suddenly? I’m sure she normally books her seats well in advance (I know I do), but when you have a death in the family, this isn’t possible.

    Are you so petty, that you wouldn’t move your seat to help out someone who just experienced an unexpected personal tragedy? Would you really say, “You should have known that your grandfather was going to die on this date and booked these seats six months ago. You didn’t and that’s your fault. I’m entitled to this seat, so send your three year old to the back of the plane because I’m too self-important to move.” That is really the point here.

  • Anonymous

    DUH – was commenting on the ARTICLE, not another person’s above.  I understand how frustrating it is when you book last minute like that – but when you have other options, you should consider those.  And you DO have to realize that booking last minute MEANS you deal with what is left – that’s why a family should check in early, so they can give those seats they’ve held to them.

  • Anonymous

    Well, actually I’m in the exact situation right now.  The only seats I was allowed to pick in advance were premium seats.  If I choose not to pay the premium, then I have to wait until I get to the airport and take what’s available then.  So – pay the extra for premium seats for peace of mind as to where I and the rest of the family will sit?  Or cheap out and hope for the best?  That’s what this article is all about – NOT about your expectations of what OTHER people will/should do.  The OP, and I, and anyone else in this same situation, must make choices and accept responsibility for those choices.

  • Anonymous

    Thought I’d add my 2 cents’ worth here.  I posted a reply to a reply to a reply to a reply and my response is so tiny, it’s hard to follow.

    “Well, actually I’m in the exact same situation right now.  The only seats I was allowed to pick in advance were premium seats.  If I choose not to pay the premium, then I have to wait until I get to the airport and take what’s available then.  So – pay the extra for premium seats for peace of mind as to where I and the rest of the family will sit?  Or cheap out and hope for the best?  That’s what this article is all about – NOT about your expectations of what OTHER people will/should do.  The OP, and I, and anyone else in this same situation, must make choices and accept responsibility for those choices.”

    I brought this topic up with my son and his family.  My son immediately said he didn’t care where he sat, so if he were flying on his own, he would just wait until he got to the airport.  My d-i-l said that she would pay the premium, just for peace of mind so that she OR my son and their daughter could sit together, but not for all three.

    Both my son and d-i-l work with the public in customer-service related fields and both emphatically said that they would never base their behavior based on what they expect/hope of others.  Expecting someone to give up their seat to benefit another, for whatever reason, isn’t rational behavior.  All we can do is be pleasantly surprised if that does happen.

  • Anonymous

    The  point of selling premium seats is to provide an amenity  (greater comfort) for those willing to pay for it. 

    The point is not to split disabled passengers from their caregivers (forbidden by law) or babies from their parents (morally questionable).

  • Anonymous

    @Michael_K said in reply to me up higher up in the posts: “The  point of selling premium seats is to provide an amenity  (greater comfort) for those willing to pay for it.”

    After a certain period, their is another “pint” of selling premium seats:  to guarantee seat assignment. 

    You are confusing a commodity for sale with a moral mandate.  The two are often not compatible.  The disabled person and caregiver or the family with small children has 3 choices:  1) book early while seat selection is still available and available at no additional cost; 2) pay a premium to choose a seat when seat selection is no longer available; or 3) wait until they get to the airport and see what’s available at no additional cost to themselves. 

    You are suggesting a moral mandate is for sale, i.e. the cost of the premium seat under option #2.  I suggest otherwise; that choosing to follow one’s principles sometimes costs more. 

  • Anonymous

    It is not a ridiculous comment at all. You asked what could go wrong on a tube and I answered. This is not some dark fantasy of mine, it is something that has actually happened repeatedly.

    I know my kids won’t be abused by me and when I choose to trust other people, I have some knowledge to make an informed decision. Of course I know that this isn’t foolproof and there are risks from people we know. That does not change the fact that it is irresponsible to leave them with random strangers who you haven’t vetted in any way.

    Your comment about assuming that all air passengers are criminals is the ridiculous one. The risks might be low but they exist and they are avoidable. Thankfully most airlines have more common sense than you do!

    Meanwhile, I think a good tip for parents with small children if they can’t book seats together would be to book an assortment of aisle seats so at least they have something desirable to trade

  • Anonymous

    It is interesting that you are seeing this as a competition between your rights and the rights of the parent. It’s nothing of the sort. It is about the child’s rights and they do supersede yours. Airlines agree.

    You are just making yourself look extremist and silly. Go crawl into a corner and read Ayn Rand so you can sulk about those horrible looters over at Elliott.org who want to trample on your non-existent “right” to a seat of your choosing.

    Rights are about things like free speech and fair trials and very you g children not being separated from their carers. Rights are not about getting to keep your pre booked seat selection when you travel by plane. Talk about First World Problems!

  • Anonymous

    She was in the window seat. Her husband was in the row in front, in a middle seat.

  • Anonymous

    I like airlines charging for seats exactly for that reason: it allow passengers like me (young, fit and healthy, looking well-traveled and independent) less of a target of the “could you please move to other seat because I have this family here and only one of them speaks English”?

  • http://www.facebook.com/judyserie.nagy Judy Serie Nagy

    Does anybody want to sit next to a 6 year-old without his parent? Airlines need to step up here and make some rules. Sure there will be people gaming the system but airlines can figure out how to handle that too. Splitting up families is just ridiculous. Nobody under the age of 12 should be forced to sit apart from a parent.