“I could have been murdered”

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I’m not the first person Rose Caiazzo has told her story about the trouble she had in the Dominican Republic. You can find it elsewhere online.

But when she contacted me, she wanted to do more than talk. She wanted some action.

Caiazzo had booked a getaway at the Riu Mambo Resort through Expedia. The package included transfers to and from the airport, which may not seem like a big deal to you. It was to her, though.

“As a young woman traveling alone, these transfers were very important for me to book through them, as I had heard about many problems the country has with rapes, muggings and overall bad things happening with tourists visiting the area,” she says.

On her way to the airport, the driver abruptly stopped and asked her to get into another van. She adds,

The driver for the new van was twice the size of me, was not wearing a “Blue” shirt. The mini-bus had closed curtains. I saw that there was another dark-colored man waiting inside the mini-bus.

I really thought I was going to get onto that bus and go to my death at that moment and wasn’t sure if I should scream, run or what.

I was basically filled with anxiety and complied with what they said to do. I swear I almost ran, I was so scared, but then I thought that would be a bad idea too.

In the end, the driver did take me to the airport, but it was a very frightening experience to not know if I was going to be at the airport, or taken someplace else to die in an unmarked vehicle.

Well, that doesn’t sound like a nice way to end your vacation. Making matters worse, she found the responses to her complaints from Expedia and the hotel to be lacking — form apologies that to her were dismissive. She believed Expedia was largely responsible for giving her the fright of her life, since it had put together the package.

“For goodness sakes,” she says, “I could have been murdered and never even found at this point.”

That’s when she started a PR campaign to bring some awareness to her unpleasant van ride, which included posting her story to other blogs and forums and contacting me. Eventually, she got a call from an Expedia manager and a partial refund on her vacation. It wasn’t enough.

I thought it would be interesting to get Expedia’s side of the story, so I contacted the online travel agency on her behalf. It said it had fully investigated her complaint and refunded $31, which is the cost of the transfers. Expedia also said the van had actually broken down — in other words, no funny business. And after all, hadn’t she arrived at the airport safely? It added:

For the inconvenience experienced during travel, additional compensation in the form of a $50 Electronic Travel Coupon was then offered and accepted by Ms. Caiazzo.

In reviewing Ms. Caiazzo’s account, it has been determined that Expedia agents did everything in their power to advocate on Ms. Caiazzo’s behalf in identifying the issue and processing a refund for the transfers.

That doesn’t work for her. She responds:

I will notever be using Expedia again. Plus, I’ll tell everyone I know how awful they treated me and whenever I see an article or blog post about them, I’ll blast them and tell my story.

I can understand her frustration, and I certainly know what it’s like to feel like the van ride you’re taking to the airport could be your last.

Expedia has made some pretty significant steps toward resolving her complaint. Some of you may be wondering: Why book a vacation in the Dominican Republic if you’re concerned about crime? Also, beyond, refunding the cost of the transfers, offering a certificate and apology, what more could Expedia or Riu have done?

This one’s going in my “case dismissed” file, but it’s cautionary tale for anyone planning a vacation. And the one takeaway, to me, is that it’s never too soon to start asking questions about security.

Update (6/26): I was contacted by Caiazzo yesterday, and she expressed her concern about the tone of the comments. I share those concerns. Some of these remarks cross the line. I’ve banned one commenter as the result of remarks made on this blog and deleted her comment. I’m considering taking further action, but I probably will not do anything without consulting with my readers.

  • Miami510

    Rose Caizzzo’s harrowing tale requires more than just and
    apology and fifty bucks.  I suggest she
    should receive at least 5 years of psychiatric services to overcome such a
    terrible experience.  In addition, she
    should receive Fifty-thousand dollars a year for at least ten years so she can
    book vacations without having to resort to dealing with travel discount
    sights.  Think I’m kidding?  You’re right. 
    I voted, “no.”

     

     

     

  • Miami510

    Rose Caizzzo’s harrowing tale requires more than just and
    apology and fifty bucks.  I suggest she
    should receive at least 5 years of psychiatric services to overcome such a
    terrible experience.  In addition, she
    should receive Fifty-thousand dollars a year for at least ten years so she can
    book vacations without having to resort to dealing with travel discount
    sights.  Think I’m kidding?

     You’re right.  I voted, “no.”

     

     

     

  • bodega3

    She is from Long Island and not lives in Jackson, WY…which conjures up silly thoughts of her and the wildlife there. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001938106072 Ken Rahr

    Really, you think she has that many friends?  Oh, wait, that’s the other voices in her psycho head!

  • TonyA_says

     That’s what Geronimo said.

  • Jeanne_in_NE

    I Googled that name as well, and came up with 6 hits.  DR isn’t listed in her places that’s she’s been, so she may be the Staten Island, NY person.  Or one of the other 4.

  • Jeanne_in_NE

    Points to me for guessing it!

  • LeeAnneClark

    I think the psychiatric services are needed…to deal with her irrational fears of dark men in airport transfer vans!  Not to mention her propensity for getting into vehicles with people whom she is absolutely convinced are going to murder her.  On the other hand, not sure 5 years of shrink services would fix that…

  • TonyA_says

     So she writes to Chris complaining about her exciting ride to the airport when she should really be complaining about food poisoning and getting hospitalized. Weird..

  • TonyA_says

    Funny you say that Michelle, she actually DID get food poisoning that night. Read below posts.

  • TonyA_says

     Fantastic commentfromme :-)

  • Sadie_Cee

    I would recommend that neophyte travelers who wish to leave the comfort and safety of their homeland to visit foreign countries they know little about, read up ahead of time on the history, geography and culture of the places they would like to visit.
     
    Imagine someone commenting on the fact that there was a “dark-colored” man in the van in the D.R.!  He could have been in the van for any number of reasons.  He could have been one of the 84% of the multi-racial and black citizens of the country or he could have been a tourist himself being shuttled to the airport!  I suppose we must conclude that she did not speak Spanish well enough to try to find out what was going on.  
     
    A person with the fears and phobias of the OP should not travel alone.  She should join a group tour where most risks are foreseen and handled by the tour company and the tour guide accompanying the group.

  • TonyA_says

    I think the price she paid is really for SHARED service. Sometimes you get a car or van to a staging point where you transfer to a larger vehicle. Because they do not explain it to you beforehand, it can get scary.

    Here’s the bottom line. Just because people might look different doesn’t mean they will kill (murder) you. In fact, if you read a little history abou the place, Europeans and Americans (yes fair skinned people) probably committed more atrocities in Hispaniola than Dominicans murdering Caucasian tourists.

  • jennj99738

     I think this is a ridiculous story and I agree that Chris probably posted it to generate some page hits.  However, I am glad he did not skip the dramatics and presented this woman as the racist she is.  Otherwise, we would not really understand why she thinks she deserved any type of refund.  And when anyone Googles her in the future, they’ll know what a racist she is, too.  Ah, the permanence of the internet! 

  • AUSSIEtraveller

    where is the problem here ?

    I can’t see ANY !!!

    Sounds like the Dominican Republic is a lot safer than any big city is the USA (not that that is saying much)

  • TonyA_says

    By the way, for those into history, it seems the only wholesale murder done in the island was done by Christopher Columbus’ gang. It is classified as a genocide. http://www.yale.edu/gsp/colonial/hispaniola/index.html
    Nice to know next time we celebrate Columbus day.

  • TonyA_says

     in her mind

  • TonyA_says

     Where are the pictures ???

  • jet2x2

    OP’s next vacation should be a stay at home adventure where she watches DVDs of scary foreign places and writes about her fears in a journal that she can show to her shrink.  I don’t even want to be near people like this when I travel - so please do us all a favor and STAY HOME.   

  • Michelle C

    HAHAHAHAHA.    Normally I would not laugh at someone getting food poisoning, but I only laugh becuase this women is PSYCHO (beyond crazy), and over dramatic. 

  • Lindabator

    Amen!  This ladies just plain nuts!

  • Lindabator

    In HER case – how about just not travelling?  Cuckoo!

  • LGandaB

    I’m a female traveler in my twenties.  I travel alone.

    Places I Have Not Been Assaulted: Anywhere in Mexico (including states with current travel advisories), Honduras (where I accidentally stayed in a brothel, by myself, overnight), Morocco, Egypt, Turkey, Moldova (including Transnistria, which currently has an “Avoid All Travel” warning), Turkey or Romania.  And many more.

    Places I Have Been Assaulted: Italy.  Violently.  In the middle of the afternoon. When dressed in work clothing.  With many other people around.  In the city center. 

    Bad things can happen anywhere.  Sadly, you can be murdered, or raped, or assaulted, or robbed, anywhere.  I’m living proof.  Expedia gave this girl exactly what she was owed.  Next time she should stay home and watch reruns of Taradise.

  • Lindabator

    Why do we Americans always think the 2nd languange has to be English???  They border Haiti, so French makes a LOT more sense!  And why, by the way, don’t we assume the responsibility of the 2nd language ever?   HHMMMMM

  • Lindabator

    Probably just “gimme” pigs!

  • http://www.facebook.com/asiansm Dang Ph

    Traveling to the Caribbeans (or any tropical place) without a spare reserve of CIPRO is a unnecessary risky trip. My doctor always prescribe 10 days of CIPRO (20 pills) just in case of food poisoning when I travel out of Canada (even to Europe), It cost nothing (free for canadians) and it could last for a year because when having food poisoning, it take only 5 or 6 pills and it go away fast. In Asia you can buy for less than 5$.

  • Lindabator

    sounds like she stayed at RIU, ate at Barcelo, and now wants moolah from both — thank GOD she’s not my client!!!

  • Lindabator

    Honestly – Jeanne, I love working with clients like you and Steve – but I think you would understand why I’d fire this one’s a@@ as soon as I could!  HAHA!

  • Lindabator

    Karma sucks!

  • Joe_D_Messina

    I think she’s way off, as well, but in her defense she never said the minivan lacked windows. She says the curtains were shut.  Now, many of those minivans have tinted windows making it almost impossible to see inside even if the curtains are open, so I’m not sure I really buy her on that part of the story, either, but she didn’t say there were no windows.

  • Joe_D_Messina

    Even if they couldn’t speak English, it shouldn’t have been too difficult to make her understand “airport” or gesture that the vehicle wasn’t working.  Honestly, I find it hard to believe nothing like that happened–she probably misinterpreted it as part of the attack she was sure was coming.

    Worst case, they didn’t try very hard to communicate with her and she got a big scare. If that’s what happened, it was probably preventable and maybe they should try harder next time.  The alternative is she was so paranoid, anything would have been misconstrued as a violent action towards her.

  • bodega3

    No kidding! 

    I find it funny how she is a social media guru, but it hasn’t worked for her with this :-)  From this site alone, she has not received good marks!

  • http://profiles.google.com/fox1066 Susan Fox

    I’m a, let’s just say, not so young woman, and if she knew that the DR was so “dangerous” why the heck did she go there in the first place? I don’t go to places where I don’t have reliable people waiting for me or to places that I would describe as “dangerous”. This is not rocket science. She’s gone over the top flogging a story in which NOTHING HAPPENED TO HER all over teh interwebz. She can drop the gratuitous references to  “dark colored men” too. And do us all a favor by staying home and getting over herself.

  • TonyA_says

    That’s the word I was thinking about – Karma!
    The dark skinned dude must have had vodoo dolls.

  • y_p_w

    I wouldn’t think French would be that likely in the tourist industry.  In the tourist industry they’re dealing with a lot of Spanish speakers, as well as Americans on vacation.

    If anything, I would think that Englsh would be more likely as a “common language” with cross-border trade.  I know a lot of people from India, and many prefer to speak English to each other because it’s a common language when people speak any of dozens of languages from that country.

  • emanon256

    Sorry I came across wrong. I meant its not like it was windowless. That would make it more scary.

  • george_says

    Although I began reading the story with sympathy for Ms. Calazzo, the use of the words “dark-colored” seem to have racial undertones that I am really alarmed by.  It seems that part of the reason she felt scared of the man was because he was dark-skinned, which to me means that her fear was NOT reasonable and therefore NOT worthy of a refund.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_UES4TUPI6NRPTG2DCB4YCX6R4U wyoming1949

    If she ever encountered a bear in Jackson her screams would probably scare the bear away.  Failing that “bear spray” (pepper spray in a large container) is readily available in and near the areas of Grand Teton and Yellowstone NP.  Strangely, in Wyoming, it’s easier, from a legal standpoint, to shoot a human in self-defense than it is a bear!

  • Ann Lamoy

    Exactly. I am a single female and frequently travel alone. When I travel to countries where I don’t speak the language, I make sure to stay in areas (after careful research) that aren’t (as she put it):as I had heard about many problems the country has with rapes, muggings
    and overall bad things happening with tourists visiting the area,”

    I mean really? If you are that concerned with your personal safety, then don’t travel to an area that you think has those kinds of problems. There are many other places you can go that would be just as enjoyable and less problems.

    I normally don’t advocate a stance of victim blaming but sensibly, if you have a great fear of some place, chances are your perceptions are going to be skewed. She had the expectation that she was going to be in danger so when the transport broke down, she felt in danger-probably in some small part because of the color of the skin of the men transporting her. It may have been a subconscious bias-I don’t know enough about the OP to judge.

  • Ann Lamoy

    Hell, I got assaulted in London. During the day as well. He grabbed me and tried to take my purse. I turned around and belted him so hard I broke his nose. Then I kicked him in the ‘nads.

    Places I haven’t been assaulted? Mexico, the seedier parts of Montreal and oh look-the Dominican Republic. *gasp*

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_OEPJGQPIEB75YYDE5CJY6R3VFE Carver Clark Farrow II

    Yes, English is the lingua franca for much of the world and is an extremely popular second language.  Only languages like Mandarin and Hindi compare.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_OEPJGQPIEB75YYDE5CJY6R3VFE Carver Clark Farrow II

    +1

  • http://elliott.org Christopher Elliott

    No NBC edit on this one. I was on the road yesterday, so I  couldn’t respond to the comments. I was conflicted about some of the racial language, but decided that taking it our would remove too much context.

  • Raven_Altosk

    Some nut grabbed my GF while we were in the Sistine Chapel. Our art guide said it was probably a “gypsy trying to steal from her.”

  • Raven_Altosk

    She sounds like a professional litigant…

  • Raven_Altosk

    Hahaha…NBC edit. Love it.

  • Raven_Altosk

    As my father used to say, “This one needs to be taken out behind the barn and put out of OUR misery.”

    I can’t believe the vitriol this “wanna be social media guru” is spilling on the internet. Way to be racist and hateful, Blogger Rose! She’s a fool to think that going to a different country is going to be the same as the US. If she can’t handle asking someone who is going to transport her for their ID–since she was soooo concerned about that–she shouldn’t leave her house.

    I also think she is a professional complainer/litigant. Sounds like she uses her awesome power of her super-special blog to extort money and freebies from companies.

    And for that, I sentence her to flying an MCO route stuck between two large fliers who are eating a bucket of stinky onions and pickles and have really smelly feet.

  • Raven_Altosk

    A rose by any other name would not be as crazy…

  • Raven_Altosk

    Will post a few when I get home tomorrow. We’re here for another day. :D

  • LeeAnneClark

    I don’t like to blame the victim either…but this lady is not a victim.  The victim here is Expedia, whom she is defaming across the blogosphere!

    Oh, and us…for having to read her whiny tripe.