“I could have been murdered”

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I’m not the first person Rose Caiazzo has told her story about the trouble she had in the Dominican Republic. You can find it elsewhere online.

But when she contacted me, she wanted to do more than talk. She wanted some action.

Caiazzo had booked a getaway at the Riu Mambo Resort through Expedia. The package included transfers to and from the airport, which may not seem like a big deal to you. It was to her, though.

“As a young woman traveling alone, these transfers were very important for me to book through them, as I had heard about many problems the country has with rapes, muggings and overall bad things happening with tourists visiting the area,” she says.

On her way to the airport, the driver abruptly stopped and asked her to get into another van. She adds,

The driver for the new van was twice the size of me, was not wearing a “Blue” shirt. The mini-bus had closed curtains. I saw that there was another dark-colored man waiting inside the mini-bus.

I really thought I was going to get onto that bus and go to my death at that moment and wasn’t sure if I should scream, run or what.

I was basically filled with anxiety and complied with what they said to do. I swear I almost ran, I was so scared, but then I thought that would be a bad idea too.

In the end, the driver did take me to the airport, but it was a very frightening experience to not know if I was going to be at the airport, or taken someplace else to die in an unmarked vehicle.

Well, that doesn’t sound like a nice way to end your vacation. Making matters worse, she found the responses to her complaints from Expedia and the hotel to be lacking — form apologies that to her were dismissive. She believed Expedia was largely responsible for giving her the fright of her life, since it had put together the package.

“For goodness sakes,” she says, “I could have been murdered and never even found at this point.”

That’s when she started a PR campaign to bring some awareness to her unpleasant van ride, which included posting her story to other blogs and forums and contacting me. Eventually, she got a call from an Expedia manager and a partial refund on her vacation. It wasn’t enough.

I thought it would be interesting to get Expedia’s side of the story, so I contacted the online travel agency on her behalf. It said it had fully investigated her complaint and refunded $31, which is the cost of the transfers. Expedia also said the van had actually broken down — in other words, no funny business. And after all, hadn’t she arrived at the airport safely? It added:

For the inconvenience experienced during travel, additional compensation in the form of a $50 Electronic Travel Coupon was then offered and accepted by Ms. Caiazzo.

In reviewing Ms. Caiazzo’s account, it has been determined that Expedia agents did everything in their power to advocate on Ms. Caiazzo’s behalf in identifying the issue and processing a refund for the transfers.

That doesn’t work for her. She responds:

I will notever be using Expedia again. Plus, I’ll tell everyone I know how awful they treated me and whenever I see an article or blog post about them, I’ll blast them and tell my story.

I can understand her frustration, and I certainly know what it’s like to feel like the van ride you’re taking to the airport could be your last.

Expedia has made some pretty significant steps toward resolving her complaint. Some of you may be wondering: Why book a vacation in the Dominican Republic if you’re concerned about crime? Also, beyond, refunding the cost of the transfers, offering a certificate and apology, what more could Expedia or Riu have done?

This one’s going in my “case dismissed” file, but it’s cautionary tale for anyone planning a vacation. And the one takeaway, to me, is that it’s never too soon to start asking questions about security.

Update (6/26): I was contacted by Caiazzo yesterday, and she expressed her concern about the tone of the comments. I share those concerns. Some of these remarks cross the line. I’ve banned one commenter as the result of remarks made on this blog and deleted her comment. I’m considering taking further action, but I probably will not do anything without consulting with my readers.

  • Lindabator

    Too bad they didn’t – we wouldn’t have been subjected to this nonsense if they had!  :)

  • Lindabator

    He’s back!  And congrats!

  • ExplorationTravMag

    I like this one – You may be right – he just shook his head on this one and instead of writing her back with, “You’re kidding me, right?” he put it up here so we could do it for him!

  • ExplorationTravMag

    Oh, dude (or dudette) – should she have one of those ankle things, too, that attaches the life preserver to her in case she falls off it?  You’re too funny!

  • ExplorationTravMag

    I posted earlier – I think he did it because he can’t write back to these people with, “Are you kidding me?”

    Soooooooo – he posts it here so we can do it for him!  And we all did…

  • ExplorationTravMag

    Maybe the medication for her emotional disorders ran out in March? *Shrug*

  • ExplorationTravMag

    All I can think is – isn’t DR a HUGE tourism spot?  If the country were that dangerous, wouldn’t there be warning from the State Department?

    I found one from this month specific to evening transfers from the Las Americas airport: http://santodomingo.usembassy.gov/sec-noc-120613.html

    I found one from May about robberies taking place on a specific roadway (again, at night): http://santodomingo.usembassy.gov/s_not-120501.html

    And the, the usual hurricane and general terrorism warnings.  Sounds to me that’s it’s in the evening where real problems occur so – don’t venture out too far at night…

  • ExplorationTravMag

    And for all we know, the original van driver might have called a friend of his to get this psycho to the airport while he figured out how to fix his van.  

    This all could have been completely innocent and I doubt very much there was no conversation at all.  Even with my pigeon Spanish (the only real phrase I know for certain in Spanish is: where are the bathrooms) I could still have figured enough out to know the darn van was broken down.

  • ExplorationTravMag

    I’m with you, Clark…  But, then, Krippendor’s Tribe might be too much for the OP.  There are brown people in it.

  • ExplorationTravMag

    I had to stop reading as soon as I got to the part where you accidentally stayed the night in a brothel!  I’d LOVE to hear that story some day!

  • TonyA_says

    Something crossed my mind…
    For all we know, the original driver (alone in the car with the OP) was a black (or dark skinned) man.
    Now that would have been a shocker!!!
    Maybe she did not like mini-buses. Too much space.  ;-)

  • TonyA_says

    The dollar is understood everywhere.

  • ExplorationTravMag

    I know, right?  What are the odds of vacationing in a predominantly dark-skinned country and running into a *GASP* dark-skinned driver?

  • cscasi

    Some people need to get their heads examined!
    Certainly,a nything cold have happened. I could have have a heart attack on the way to an airport in a taxi or van service. Does that mean they are responsible? WHAT A WHINER!

  • TonyA_says

     LOL, but I kept on thinking about suntan mama when she suggested it would be ok to be alone on the same bus with a dark skinned lady

  • jennj99738

     And the emotional support snake.  She must be seated next to the emotional support snake. 

  • chaos530

     Actually on her arm, so she doesn’t go head first if she slips

    It’s dudette :)

  • SimoneNY

    I have sympathy for her situation. It’s very frightening not to understand what’s going on. Being transferred from one van to another one with curtains and no explaination can be very frightening.  She was at a tourist hotel, so  the driver should have had enough english to tell her that there were car problems and had to put her into another van.  If he didn’t, HE should have called the hotel front desk and had them explain to her what was going on in english.
    In terms of compensation, she got enough. For me, the compensation that I would want is to know that the staff be educated to understand that a woman traveling alone, being put into another vehicle midway in a trip with no explaination could be extremely frightening and something like that should never happen.

  • LisaSimmeone

    More Stupid, Racist Americans  complaining that the rest of the world is not like their suburb.  A van ride with a black man.  Really?  Maybe if she had been raped this would have been a story.  Tell her to go back to the Weekly World News and shut her trap.

  • LisaSimmeone

    Because no one who is wite shold have ot deal with a “darkie”.  

  • LisaSimmeone

     No, she “should ” have been murdered.

  • naoma

    Why did she go there in the first place?  I have traveled a lot of the world alone and never had a bad experience.  Could have, would have, etc. is an over reaction beyond my comprehension.  I voted “no” on the survey.
    Seriously, she sounds like a big complainer — perhaps that is why she 
    traveled alone.  Have been on group trips where we always have someone like this person.  

  • naoma

    I would not give up on Chris.  He writes a great column and always answers when I write him personally.  The woman was obviously a bigot — they are out there.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_UES4TUPI6NRPTG2DCB4YCX6R4U wyoming1949

    The OP reminds me of the old movie “Airplane.”  I’m thinking of the woman who was going hysterical; was slapped by the flight attendant, and then had a line of passengers waiting to slap her.

  • kanehi

    Could’ve, would’ve, should’ve… forget the last one!  LOL  What’s with the ‘Blue’ shirt?  Should she be compensated for her fears?  Not going to happen.  She was never harmed in the first place, the idea was all in her mind!

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/XLC2W5YMNEWDBKUHJWDXPS35YI DanielD

    Nobody wants to travel with her due to the rape lurking behind every corner she passes.

  • MominAmarillo

    Exactly…I think her next act should be publicizing a trip to the grocery store whereupon :::nobody died:::

  • http://twitter.com/redhousecat Angela

    you could always delete the comments from the ignorant/offending people.

  • travelagentman

    What an ass she must be. Their was a problem and it was corrected. Expedia bookings mean that she acted as her own travel agent. There are far better and more personable companies at the same rates or better. Use a travel agent and pay a bit more for private transfers.

  • tech_ed

    I have to agree with the statement…why go somewhere if you’re afraid of getting mugged, raped or murdered?
    There are some countries in this world that hate Americans…just don’t go there!
    There are some really nice and safe spots right here in the good ‘ol US of A that would be glad for your tourist dollars! And if you stick with locations that thrive on tourism, you will be guaranteed to have a great time!

  • tepetipi

    I think this story helps as a cautionary tell. I can understand her
    fear in the moment but maybe there were some language barriers that didn’t allow
    her to understand the reason of the change of cars. Knowing some Spanish may
    have helped her express her discomfort but i can totally see where shes coming
    from. I think shes doing the right thing by telling her story

  • GoRav114

    Three out of country trips booked through Expedia without one single problem.  I am sure they are not perfect but they are legit and not intentionally trying to have someone “fear for their life”. 

  • AH

    I’m not going to read all of the prior 179 comments, but I will say that the van driver should have notified the passenger that there was a mechanical breakdown and she would be transferring to another van.   (The van stopped and (she) was told to transfer… isn’t a very good explanation.)  As a single woman who has traveled alone in the past, I can understand the nervousness about entering a new van, without explanation, and seeing only one other passenger, who happened to be male.  The closed curtains part also would be worrisome.

    As no physical harm was done, and the young woman made it to her destination without further incident, I agree that a refund of her transfer fees , offering vouchers and an apology was all the appropriate resolution.

    Chris, it’s unfortunate the so many people online hide behind anonymity to make nasty, rude, and totally off-topic remarks.