Can this trip be saved? My 17-year-old booked a ticket on Orbitz — actually, two tickets

Booking a flight online may be convenient, but it’s far from problem-free. Just ask Charles Bornheim, whose son is holding an extra airline ticket he booked through Orbitz.

Bornheim is trying to get a refund, but is having no luck. Airlines can be pretty unforgiving with their refund policies, and at some point when you’re booking online, you have to take responsibility for your own actions.

But is this a case where no one is really to blame — and should I try to help him secure a refund?

Here’s what happened to Bornheim:

My 17-year-old son went to Orbiz to book his very first flight to occur over Thanksgiving. He got confused by the site and its procedures and double booked without realizing it.

He booked the original Delta flight on October 4. The site said he would receive confirmation by email within 24 hours. He either did not receive or failed to see it the confirmation the next day (I could not find it in any of his mailboxes: inbox or trash folder, so I believe him when he says he didn’t get it).

A couple of days later, believing he had made an error in trying to book the first flight, he went back to Orbitz and booked a second flight for the same cities and dates, this time on American. (The preferred Delta itinerary was no longer available at the low fare he had originally booked).

OK, let me stop here for a second. You had me at “17-year-old books a Thanksgiving flight.”

I’m sure there are 17-year-olds who are responsible, capable users. But shouldn’t junior have asked his parents for help before he booked the second ticket?

Anyway, on with the story.

It wasn’t until a few days later, when his bank notified him that his account was empty and he owed penalties on top of the shortage that he realized he had booked twice.

We immediately called Orbitz asking them to cancel the second (American) reservation and refund his money. They refused. We called back during the day to talk to a regular supervisor, and that person also refused. They said our only recourse was to explain the situation to American Airlines customer relations.

So I had my son email American customer relations explaining the situation. They obviously did not read his letter carefully because a CSR named Lisa Fields wrote back asking him for the record locator of the original American flight (the original flight was on Delta, NOT American,
which his letter clearly stated).

I helped my son send an email response to Ms. Fields immediately explaining that the original reservation was on Delta, not American. They did not acknowledge the second email, and we have heard nothing from them for over a week. I don’t even know if they got or read the letter.

There is still time for American to cancel the reservation and resell the ticket for a much better price than they got from my son. But I don’t know how to contact them or let them know about the problem and get it resolved before Thanksgiving.

What could have been done to prevent this? A lot.

When the confirmation email didn’t arrive, Bornheim’s son should have called Orbitz to verify the itinerary. A confirmation could have been sent to him again. He could have also phoned Delta if for some reason he couldn’t get through to Orbitz.

Once the second ticket was booked, he should have informed his parents of the rebooking immediately instead of waiting for bad news from his bank. But those of us reading this, who have made reservations online before, we know all of this. The point is, this is a 17-year-old boy making his very first reservation online. He couldn’t have known.

So what now? I’ve given Bornheim some contacts at Orbitz and have suggested that he follow up with them. At worst, his son can cancel one of the flights and get credit for it.

But should I mediate this case?

Update (7:30 a.m.): Less than an hour after I posted this, Delta Air Lines contacted me and offered to refund Bornheim’s ticket. “Good lesson learned here,” a representative told me. I’ll say! Thanks, Delta.

I’ve closed the poll. It was a close vote.

(Photo: loo see nds/Flickr Creative Commons)

  • Tom

    The parent should have supervised the child making the purchases. If the kid was over his head, where did he get the credit card to make the purchases. This is a case of live and learn. The lesson is to check carefully BEFORE making a non-refundable purchase. Another lesson might be to check with an experienced or responsible person BEFORE spending money.

  • Brian B

    As far as I know, in most states, a minor can’t enter into a contract and they have the right to rescind.

    You might try that angle. Here is something I found on the subject:

    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/93593/the_risks_and_dangers_of_entering_a.html

  • David Z

    Sheesh. For once, I’m rather stuck.

    On one hand, we’re all responsible for our actions. I wouldn’t do something if I’m not entirely confident on it, but…that’s just me.

    It’s anyone’s guess why the 17-year old didn’t get the email. An unfortunate reality is no single party can guarantee email delivery, although arguably most emails get through anyway.

    If Orbitz is reay to show they truly sent the email confirmation out (and I’m sure they are) soon after the booking was made, then they’ve essntially done their part. Hard to show otherwise inspite of trying to argue about it.

    Lots of things can be debated here, but…I doubt that’s going to solve this immediate problem. Ultimately, though, it boils down to Delta Airlines (un)willingness (?) to reconsider the double booking if it’s truly an exact “mirror” of the 1st intended one, and that’s why Orbitz “won’t” refund it even if they wanted to. (without taking a hit on their pockets, of course…)

    For me, just try anyway. I honestly think it won’t pan out, but…no harm trying.

  • Anon

    I voted for mediation for two reasons…

    1) This was a clear mistake.

    2) It doesn’t sound like Orbitz is giving him the full attention any paying customer deserves, which is unfortunate.

    I also want to point out that most 17-year-olds are far more savvy than the older generation at using the computer. If a 17-year-old is getting this confused this easily, it may be a problem with him, or it may indicate that the website really isn’t that easy to navigate. (I wouldn’t know, since I tend to book directly through the airline.)

  • Arizona Road Warrior

    No. Mr. Bornheim should have made the reservations himself or should have supervised his son making his first reservation.

  • http://twitter.com/cestbeth Beth

    Yay to you, Chris, for posting the story and to Delta for seeing it and refunding it! (I’ve heard they really monitor mentions of the Delta name in media/social media these days.) But wow, I don’t think I’d let even a computer-savvy kid book a trip without adult supervision or assistance.

  • Arizona Road Warrior

    @ David Z – “Ultimately, though, it boils down to Delta Airlines (un)willingness (?) to reconsider the double booking if it’s truly an exact “mirror” of the 1st intended one, and that’s why Orbitz “won’t” refund it even if they wanted to. (without taking a hit on their pockets, of course…)”
    - – - – - – - – -
    He made a reservation with Delta then he made a reservation with American Airlines…so it wasn’t a double booking of making the exact same reservation with the same airline.

    @ David Z – “It’s anyone’s guess why the 17-year old didn’t get the email.”
    - – - – - – - – - –
    Did the 17-YO entered his e-mail address? Did the 17-YO entered an incorrect e-mail address? Did the e-mail went to his junk folder\spam folder? If it went to his junk\spam folder and he deleted it, it won’t be in his trash folder.

    The bottom line is that a responsible parent would have made the purchase himself or supervised the purchase.

  • Christopher Elliott

    @Beth, I’m shocked at how quickly Delta responded. I hadn’t even posted this on Twitter or Facebook yet.

  • Arizona Road Warrior

    @ Anon – “1) This was a clear mistake.”
    - – - – - – - -
    Yes, it was a clear mistake by Mr. Bornheim to allow his son to make a reservation by himself. Mr. Bornheim should have taken responsibility.

    @ Anon – “I also want to point out that most 17-year-olds are far more savvy than the older generation at using the computer. If a 17-year-old is getting this confused this easily, it may be a problem with him, or it may indicate that the website really isn’t that easy to navigate. (I wouldn’t know, since I tend to book directly through the airline.)”
    - – - – - -
    This has nothing to do with the Orbitz website. This has to do with an irresponsible parent allowing a teenager to make a ‘major’ purchase without adult supervison.

  • http://bidontravel.com/blog/ Don Nadeau

    This seems so unfair.

    The airline American that was unhelpful gets the money. The one Delta that broke its rules in order to help gets nothing.

    Nevertheless, I predict that the Bornheim family will be using Delta next time.

  • David Z

    @Arizona

    Aargh, you’re right. I overlooked the second booking made for an American Airline flight. Still, glad to see the issue’s resolved and Delta reconsidered.

  • Brooklyn

    There’s a first time for everything. This parent clearly wants his kid to grow up – as seen from the fact that he had the kid try to resolve the problem directly rather than sailing in to help. Only when that failed did he contact Chris. I applaud both father and son and I think that Chris should have intervened if necessary. The lesson should NOT be for the young man to be afraid to try anything new and to ask his parents for help at every turn!

  • http://nmdfreelance.com Nancy

    Given the quick response of Delta’s team, mediating is now a moot point – However..

    I would have mediated, were I you. Not having received a confirmation e-mail (and I will usually get one within minutes, though I refuse to use the conglomerate sites, wishing more control over my travel than they offer) from the airline, I don’t know I wouldn’t have done the same thing as the 17 year old.

    I make travel reservations all the time. I’ve never NOT gotten a confirmation e-mail but there’s a first time for everything.

    I might have checked my bank account first before making the second reservation. But the son is young and probably hadn’t done this before.

    As far as dad supervising: I’m sorry, I have a nearly 17 year old son. They are vile, mean beasts who give you a great deal of, “I’m almost an adult. I need to know how to do this” and he might not have come to us were the same thing have happened to him.

    But Dad should have told the son, “Let me stand by while you do this in case there are problems.” The son might have allowed that.

  • Sean

    Re: Irresponsible Parents

    1) If you carefully read between the lines, you’ll notice that the son is a freshman college student (yes, it’s possible) far away from home. Why else would he be flying home? How can Mom or Dad look over his shoulder to buy the ticket when they’re hundreds of miles away?

    2) If the father trusted his son to book an expensive plane ticket online, I’m sure this isn’t the first thing he’s bought online. Also, it is true that the son probably knows more about using a computer than his dad. (My 14-year old brother knows how to use a computer better than both of my parents combined.) So we can rule out the son how to book plane tickets.

    Everyone needs to learn to stop being quick to judge. This is simply a father helping his son with a problem. If a husband were helping his wife with the same problem, would you call the husband irresponsible?

  • Carver

    A lot of people are complaining that a 17 year old kid is making this transcaction, yet apparantly many of us can’t read carefully.

    @Arizona

    From the story, it appears that this 17 year old was purchasing his own ticket, for his own trip, using his own money, from his own bank account. . I fail to see how that makes the parents irresponsible.

    I don’t see anything in this story that suggested that the 17 year old kid did anything differently than any other relatively inexperienced traveler would have done.

    Yes, I can think of numerous things that an experienced traveler would have done, e.g. avoided 3rd party websites like the plague, called Delta to see if the first ticket had actually gone through, etc.

  • laura

    I’d like to point out that when money is involved, we all like to get second chances.

    I feel far more empathetic for this family than the ‘seasoned’ business travelers who have contacted Chris recently when they were fined or otherwise penalized for intentionally double-booked to get rewards and upgrades (they were just outright scammers). If they have the nerve to ask, what’s so wrong with this kid’s family giving it a try?

    As the previous poster pointed out parental supervision was a bit difficult in this case, esp. as the traveler usu. needs credit card used at booking to smooth over any problems with an e-ticket at the airport, how was that going to happen when the kid is trying to fly home?

    And it goes without saying that even much older folks have encountered glitches with online booking systems. Kudos to Delta for stepping in helping, even if they didn’t have to. There just doesn’t seem to be even regular customer service most of the time these days, its refreshing to see superior customer service.

  • Joe Farrell

    A 17 year old cannot be held liable for purchases. Air Travel is not the type of necessary [food, shelter] that a minor can be held liable for. Further, if they were not authorized to use a credit card which they used – then they could not have bought the tickets – once again – refund is mandated.

    Thus, Delta must refund purchases made by a 17 year old. They can file a police report if they believe they have lost money. Then the parent needs to accept the consequences of the refund . . . .

  • http://nmdfreelance.com Nancy

    @ Arizona Road Warrior

    Not everyone is the savvy traveler you seem to be. I am also a “Road Warrior” but mistakes happen, airlines don’t send out the confirmation e-mail, etc.

    Given this kid is a college freshman, when does the parenting stop and when are parents permitted to rely on their kids knowing the right thing to do?

    I ask because I’ve already raised three kids to adulthood and have one that is a year and a half away from being 18. I taught them all at a younger age how to buy travel online for future use. I haven’t done it with my 16 year old yet so, since you are now in my world and have a grasp of how to do online travel, when do I cut the umbilical cord and let him do these things on his own? 18? 21? 25? 30?

    I think calling the dad “irresponsible” was a wee bit judgmental on your part. Not all of us are you. And it’s incredibly easy to be the Monday morning quarterback…

    Too bad American got the business since it’s Delta who stepped up to the plate.

  • Carver

    @Joe F

    We need more facts to give a legal opinion

    1. The kid used his bank account. If so the parents aren’t involved, Unless, one of the parents is on the account (reasonably likely) in which case, the contracts may or may not be voidable, depending on the particular state law.

    2. In any case, filing a police report makes no sense. Exactly what would the claim be. The minor exercised his right to voiding the contract?

  • BucksterSF

    Just assuming the first one never went through and booking a second was just stupid. I’m not calling the kid stupid, but I’ve done stupid things and this looks one of them. I hope this was a good learning experience.

    As far as the companies go these were two legitimate purchases. They had no responsibility to refund anything. Bravo for Delta.

  • Elizabeth Hamill

    At some point you need to train your child to do things by himself and at first glance this shouldn’t be hard to mess up. However, kids have the ability to turn the easiest tasks into a 3-ring circus. This is an unfortunate result of “growing” into adulthood. They make mistakes, however, in this digital credit card age, it can be hard to undo mistakes. I am glad to see that Delta saw this for what it was and refunded the money. The kid learned a lesson and the world is still turning on its axis.

  • Josh

    I’m glad Delta stepped up; it didn’t have to, although I hope Orbitz was able to provide the

    If it had been on the same airline, I would have argued strongly that this falls into the “fat finger”, “too good to be true” category that the airlines often expect us to be forgiving of when they do it. 2 reservations for the same person on the same flights is clearly a mistake that they can see, and the airline should not be allowed to benefit from it.

    However, in this case with 2 different airlines who wouldn’t be responsible for the other’s reservations, if the flights were booked with exactly the same login info, I’d expect Orbitz to catch it and at least warn the customer.

  • laura

    I’ll update my coments because I was commenting before based on the comment stream (the actual article was unavailable then). I was unaware from the info available that the kid booked using his own card. I still don’t think that makes it entirely his fault, or indicts the parents as irresponsible. Whether he was 17 or 47, it was his first flight booked and that can always be confusing. Third party travel sites in my opinion do little to make it easy for a first-time or infrequent traveler to understand all the ins and outs of booking travel. When you add potential technical issues, like lost e-mails, it just makes it worse. (I myself have been victim to a missing confirmaiton e-mail, so I know it happens).

    I’ll will be interesting to see if the kid’s bank refunds or excuses all the overdraft fees. That will be a much harder battle to wage I think, and so it may still end up being a costly lesson for him.

  • Abhi

    We all were 17 years old sometime in the past (some more recently than others). We all did things where ‘experience’ would have made a big difference. Sometimes we faced consequences, sometimes we were forgiven depending opon the severity of the incident and future implications. Should we blame our parents for what we did at that age? Where does learning on your own start?

    I believe this college kid didn’t do anything as harmful as some of the most successful people now have done in their teens, just ask our current president about it. At the most he got a lifetime experience to be careful about monetary transactions. I am pretty sure he will be extra careful next time.

    I am glad that Delta could refund his money back. Orbitz should have stepped up to the task than give him the runaround. Orbitz sends me 2-3 emails everyday boasting about their low rates and award winning customer service (!). Why can’t they send a follow up email to a customer who has purchased a product from them? May be ask for an alternate email address on the form to send email to?

  • B

    This is my 1st time commenting here but felt the need to voice my opinion.

    At 17 I booked my 1st flight from BWI to Orlando. If I had gone to my parents they would’ve been beyond confused seeing how 10 years later (I’m 27 now) they’re JUST now getting into email, texting and the internet in general. They ask ME for help when it comes to the internet and 10 years ago it was the same way. Even my sister who’s 23 isn’t very internet/computer savy.

    What I’m trying to say is the age of the person involved in the error really has nothing to do with the issue/error. As other people have said, this could’ve happened to a 28 YO, 40 YO or 60 YO. It’s a mistake and they happen.

  • Jeanne in NE

    I’m glad that Delta stepped up and helped out. I’ll keep that in mind when I’m booking my next flight.

    As re the 17 year old: good for him for taking responsibility and trying to handle things. His actions bespeak inexperience, not age (or lack thereof). I think his parents did a fine job raising a young adult.

  • Jennifer

    I’m curious where people are getting that the 17 y.o. is a college freshman flying home for Thanksgiving? I can read and nowhere could I divine this information. A 17 y.o. away at school would be better off using a secondary credit card on his parents’ account to monitor spending and avoid overdrafts like what happened here. I don’t know what else to say but that this was clearly a mistake that somehow didn’t get caught by the user. I guess I can understand the missing confirmation email but when the son logged into his Orbitz account to make the second purchase, didn’t he see the original flight? Did he even check? Of course he should be allowed to make certain decisions for himself but when they involve substantial amounts of money, perhaps a parent should get involved. I’m assuming he didn’t check with his parents before he made either purchase. I’m glad Delta refunded the kid for his mistake.

  • Rose

    You have to smile — we read endless disapproving articles about “helicopter parents”, who hover & manage their kids’ business w/o giving them the opportunity to fail & learn. Here is a young person who is managing his own affairs, and when something goes wrong (that’s the supposedly educational “fail” part, right?), suddenly the parent is “irresponsible.” Wow, judgmental much?

  • Jennifer Hanuschak

    I agree with “Jeanne in NE.” This young man tried to make his one of his first independent travel arrangements, that unfortunately did not work out. Good for him, and also for owning up to his own responsibility for a part of this. I think Delta did the right thing here, and I’m glad the situation worked out. Another lesson to be learned here–this happens just as often to adults, and perhaps we should all take care to double-check our bookings.

  • Raven

    I would have voted “Yes.” This sounds like a legitimate mistake made by (probably?) a college freshman trying to get home for his first Thanksgiving away.

    …and I’m usually the cold-hearted one.

  • CDickerson

    But as one poster already mentioned, a 17-year old – a minor – cannot enter into a contract! How is either ticket enforceable?

  • LD

    Most online sites do not allow minors to book on their site, unless the minor states he is an adult. The reservation would not be allowed to book if they added their correct age as an unaccompanied monir, in this case 17. When booking as an adult, there is no way the online site would know this person was a minor, therefore, the charge would be valid.

  • Leslie

    Glad to see that Delta responded so quickly to your inquiry! Kudos to them for understanding the situation…

    By the way, I can absolutely sympathize with the OP’s son. The first time I ever booked airlines tickets, it was for the executives at the company I had just started working for. I didn’t know ANYTHING about the rules when you book an online ticket and I screwed up all four reservations. It was totally my fault. Luckily, I called the airline within 24 hours and was able to make changes without penalty. I’m still uber paranoid and careful when I make an online reservation, and it’s 5 years later! I doubt their son will ever make the same mistake again, either.

  • Teresa

    Good for Delta. I’m assuming the 2 bookings were made with the same Orbitz username for the same passenger name for the same date and time. If so, my opinion is that a cancellation request should be honored if it was made without delay. Genuine double bookings should always be refunded. They are mistakes, regardless of how old the person booking was. It would have been nice if Orbitz would have helped take care of this. It would be even nicer if Orbitz would put a bit of code in place to warn passengers of a preexisting booking at the same time.

  • http://www.thetravelinggiraffe.com Crissy

    I would have voted yes. A young inexperienced traveler tried to do the right thing. He made some mistakes, but I think that Orbitz should have done more for him. Nice job by Delta for picking this up quickly and helping out. Bad job by Orbitz for not working it out with American.

  • Kim

    OpenTable won’t let me make 2 dinner reservations relatively close together as they recognize that I can’t be in two places at once. As Theresa suggested, Orbitz could do the same thing. Will they is a different matter.

  • http://www.twitter.com/claystorm Kevin Murray

    I am very glad to see that Delta, while not needing to, did the right thing in refunding this young man his money. I really think Orbitz or American Airlines should stopped looking at their bottom line first and done the right thing before Delta did, but that is life. I applaud Delta for doing the right and very quickly too!

    But really thats not the reason why I am posting a comment. The reason why I am commenting is all the people who think this young man should have had someone looking over his shoulders the whole time and holding his hand (or even worse not allowing this young man to try anything at all).

    While at 17 he is still technically a minor, he is almost an adult. Without knowing his birth date, its hard to say how close to 18 he is, but I think a lot of people forget that he is almost an adult in the eyes of the law. He should be trying new things and if he successes, great! If not and he fails, well that is life. It seems to me that this young man was brought up by good parent(s) who allowed him to try a new thing on his own for better or worse.

    Being that I am a young adult of 26 years, I am able to recognize that not everyone is like me or had the same upbringing that I did. For me, at age 17, I was already working full time at an architectural design firm designing restaurants and commercial kitchens for schools and hotels, a job I was lucky to get a few days after my high school graduation. Also at this age, I had already booked airfare and flown a few times on my own to visit my sister who was in college in Los Angeles.

    Not everyone at age 17 is as independent or even technologically savvy as I was. While we would like to believe that all young people in this young mans generation are all very technologically savvy people since they make up a bulk of the early adapters on services like Facebook and Twitter, we are fools to believe that. Not everyone in the under 25 age group are good with computers or how to book travel online (or at all).

    Just like we are fools if we think that our youth need to have their hands held every time they try something new or that we need to protect them from anything new or different. The longer we wait to let our kids fail, the harder they are going to fall. I now work in youth ministry and all too often see kids fail for the first time too late in life because their parents tried to protect them from everything. I will say its not pretty to see.

    I am sure that this young man has learned a few lessons from this and also got to see when a company gets it right (Delta) and when a company get it wrong (Orbitz and AA).

  • DJP

    @ALL

    The age in this is a nonfactor because this easily couldve happened to someone in their 20s or 30s, or 60s, who never booked through websites before.

    Somehow he missed the email confirmation.

    Orbitz could very easily put some very visible link exlaining to new users on the steps to do.

    I think someone who is 17 in this day and age should be familiar with online things like ordering and receiving email confirmations. The parents made a jusgement that he understood what to do.

  • PauletteB

    I would have voted Yes because why should a kid be penalized for his parent’s lack of proper supervision? It sounds as though the young man had his own bank account/debit card, which is not unusual for teenagers who have a job. When my daughter was that age, she would have wanted to book the flight herself, but I would have been right there to assist and answer questions if necessary.

  • TTNtraveler

    I made an air reservation on Orbitz recently, and I noticed that it took a couple days to receive the confirmation email myself. If this had been my first trip to the rodeo, I might have been just as confused – especially since it took a couple days for the charge to hit my account.

    The problem is that, in my opinion, he didn’t catch the mistakes (his and Orbitz’s) soon enough. I’m really happy Delta stepped up to get a resolution though. I’ve found that they are more generally inclined to make goodwill gestures to clients in tough spots than others (although by no means in every circumstance.)